Save or Dump: Can I Feed My Baby This Breast Milk?

There’s nothing worse than having to dump breast milk you worked really hard to pump! However, in some scenarios, it’s not always clear whether breast milk is safe to give to your baby, or needs to be discarded. Here are the most common “can I feed my baby this breast milk” questions, and the answers according to the available guidelines and information.

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My Baby Didn’t Finish Her Bottle. Can I Give It to Her Later?

If my baby drank some breast milk but didn’t finish the bottle, can I offer it to her again later? If so, should I put it back in the fridge and rewarm it, or just leave it at room temperature?

Yes. You can offer it again within two hours.

Per the CDC, the guideline that we should follow is:

If your baby did not finish the bottle, the leftover breast milk can still be used within two hours after the baby is finished feeding. After 2 hours, leftover breast milk should be discarded.

What’s the reasoning behind this guideline? When your baby begins drinking from the bottle, there will be some bacteria contamination that occurs in the breast milk. How quickly this will occur depends on the room temperature, how long the milk has been stored, and the bacteria present.

What do you do with the bottle between feedings, after your baby started drinking it? Can you reheat a bottle of breastmilk? Either rewarming or leaving it at room temperature is fine – whichever works best for you. Per Kellymom:

If you do save the milk for later use, some mothers re-refrigerate the milk and others leave it at room temperature – no studies have been done, so we don’t know whether one method is preferred. We do know that for any food, refrigeration slows bacteria growth. Milk storage guidelines do not include any warnings against rewarming milk, and many moms rewarm with no issues.

If I Warmed a Bottle and My Baby Didn’t Drink Any of the Milk, Can I Give It to Her Later? How Long Does Breast Milk Last after Warming?

If I warmed a bottle of breast milk and my baby didn’t drink any (she went back to sleep), can I put it back in the refrigerator and offer it again?

Yes. You can offer it again within the next two hours.

Per the CDC:

Once breast milk is brought to room temperature or warmed after storing in the refrigerator or freezer, it should be used within 2 hours.

As with the question above, either rewarming or leaving it out is fine, as long as you feed it within two hours.

Can I Refreeze Frozen Breast Milk?

My milk thawed in a power outage. I’m heartbroken! Can I refreeze it?

This is the worst feeling – I’ve had all my milk thaw due to one of my older kids unplugging my deep freezer. But unfortunately, you cannot refreeze thawed breast milk, and you need to use it within 24 hours of when it has finished thawing (not from when you take it out of the freezer).

One important thing to note when considering this is that “finished thawing” means that all of the ice crystals are gone. If your breast milk still has ice crystals, it is considered safe to put back in the freezer.

Can I Take Breast Milk out of the Fridge and Let it Come to Room Temperature?

Can I take my breast milk out of the refrigerator and let it gradually warm up, instead of using a bottle warmer?

Yes, you can. However, there is a time limit on how long you can leave it out.

Again, per the CDC:

Once breast milk is brought to room temperature or warmed after storing in the refrigerator or freezer, it should be used within 2 hours.

So you have two hours once your milk comes to room temperature to feed it to your baby. How long does it take breast milk to come to room temperature when sitting out? I love experiments, so I tested it out.

It took about two hours when I tested it out (room temperature in my Chicago-in-January house was 66 degrees). How long it will take your breast milk to warm to room temperature will depend on how much milk is in the bottle, what the ambient temperature is, and the composition of the milk. However, I think two hours is a good guideline.

Can I Leave Previously Refrigerated Breast Milk out, and Feed It to My Baby in the Middle of the Night?

In the past, you’ve recommended letting freshly pumped milk sit out until baby’s first nighttime feeding (within 4-8 hours*). Can I do this with previously refrigerated milk, or does it have to be freshly pumped?

You can, as long as the feeding occurs with four hours – two for it to come to room temperature, and the two that it can sit out according to the CDC guideline discussed above. So, if your baby goes to bed at 8pm, you take the milk out and go to bed at 11pm, and your baby normally wakes up for a feeding before 3am, that will work fine.

*Note: The guidelines on how long freshly pumped breast milk can be safely left out at room temperature vary. The CDC says 4 hours is the maximum; Kellymom says 4-8, with 3-4 being ideal.

Can I Let Thawed Breast Milk Sit Out to Come to Room Temperature?

I’ve weaned from the pump and am feeding my baby from my freezer stash. I want to take some breast milk with me on an outing with my baby. I know I can’t thaw the milk at room temperature. But can I thaw it, and then let previously frozen milk come to room temperature in a my diaper bag before feeding it?

I could not find a clear answer to this question.

There are two parts to the question – a) can I let a bottle of previously frozen milk come to room temperature over time, and b) can I let a bottle of previously frozen breast milk sit out at room temperature until baby is ready to drink it?

We have to answer to the second part of the question from the Department of Health and Human Services:

Once breastmilk is thawed to room temperature or warmed after being in the refrigerator or freezer, use it within 2 hours.

So yes, a bottle of previously frozen breast milk can sit at room temperature for 2 hours.

However, they do not specify how the breast milk must get to room temperature. We know that we can’t thaw milk at room temperature (it needs to be done in the refrigerator or in water), but after it’s thawed, can it sit at room temperature to warm, or does it need to be warmed to room temperature by putting it in a bowl of lukewarm water? I read through a lot of documentation, and was not able to find an answer.

So, if you want to be on the safe side, I would recommend keeping the previously frozen milk cold in a cooler (more options here) and then warming it using one of the methods described here for warming breast milk outside the house.

What “can I feed my baby this breast milk” questions do you have that I missed? Share them in the comments, and I’ll try to find the answer!

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