At some point, it will be time to transition your baby off of breast milk onto a different milk, whether that is formula, cow’s milk, soy milk, etc. Here is how to make weaning your baby off breast milk to formula or milk as easy as possible.
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What milk are you going to switch to?
The milk that you’re going to transition to depends on your baby’s age, any allergies or intolerances, etc.
1. Formula
If you stop pumping or nursing before your baby turns one, you will need to transition to formula.
In the United States, formula is pretty tightly regulated, so there isn’t a “best” type that you should switch to unless your baby has certain allergies or dietary requirements. Talk to your pediatrician if you have concerns.
2. Cow’s Milk
After your baby turns one, many parents switch to cow’s milk if their baby doesn’t have a dairy allergy or intolerance.
Talk to your pediatrician with any concerns you have with regard to the type of cow’s milk you plan to switch to (whole, 2%, etc.)
3. Alternative Milks
If your baby has dairy allergies or doesn’t tolerate it well, your doctor may suggest avoiding cow’s milk.
The most common alternative milks are soy, almond, hemp, and goat. More on these here.
Weaning Baby from Breastmilk to Formula or Milk
There are two ways that most parents switch their baby’s primary milk.
1. Switch cold turkey
Making the transition can be as easy as switching cold turkey: one feeding your baby gets breast milk, and the next he gets the milk or formula that you’re transitioning him to.
2. Gradual transition
You can also make the transition gradually, slowly adding more and more new milk to the old milk.
On my son’s first birthday, I put just a splash of whole milk into his breast milk bottle to see if he’d take it and whether he had an allergic reaction.
He didn’t seem to care one way or the other – or even notice the change – so over a week I gradually began increasing amount of whole milk in each bottle until he was only drinking cow’s milk.
When should you wean from the pump?
If possible, I would recommend waiting to wean from the pump until after you’re started the transition and you know your baby will take the new formula/milk.
Weaning can be unpredictable, and it can be really stressful if you start the transition when you’re almost out of frozen breast milk, and your baby refuses the new milk you’d planned on.
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Switching to Sippy Cups
One other thing to think about: if you’re switching to milk at age one, you’re also at about the age that you make the transition from bottle to sippy cup.
If you’re nervous about these transitions, it might make sense to tackle them separately: get your baby drinking milk out of a bottle first, and then switch from a bottle to sippy cup, or vice versa.
(There’s no reason that babies can’t drink cow’s milk out of a bottle or breast milk out of a sippy cup.)
My son had a really challenging time switching to sippy cups – I literally bought 10 different kinds before finding one that worked.
Do you have any questions about transitioning your baby off of breast milk? Let us know in the comments!
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References
- Dinsdale, Elsa. “Early Exposure to Soy Isoflavones and Effects on Reproductive Health: A Review of Human and Animal Studies.” https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3257624/
- Gall, Stephanie. “An Updated Guide to Soy, Rice, Nut, and Other Non-Dairy Milks.” https://www.vrg.org/journal/vj2008issue1/2008_issue1_updateguide.php
Comments & Chitchat
Sonja says
I am interested in continuing to EP and keep her on breastmilk as if I were breastfeeding. I have no problems with giving her cows milk, we drink it at home, but I am confused about how much I should give her of breast milk in a bottle (and eventually in a sippy cup) in addition to cows milk. I get the impression that they are not interchangeable because breastmilk does not have vitamin D (she has been supplementing with Vitamin D drops since she was an infant).
She already gets quite a bit of dairy via yogurt and cottage cheese daily, so I doubt she has a cow dairy allergy. It’s really just a question of, if I am still giving her plenty of breast milk (pumping on average 30-35oz a day still), how much cows milk does she really need daily?
Thank you!
Amanda Glenn, CLC says
Hi Sonja! I would ask your pediatrician, but I don’t think she NEEDS any cows milk. If she doesn’t have another source of vitamin D, you might want to keep giving the drops, but there’s no reason you couldn’t just feed breast milk. If you wanted to get her used to it, maybe do a cup a day? But again, I would ask your pediatrician what she thinks. Good luck!
Nadeen says
Hi Amanda!
So glad to have read this article now as I am trying to transition my 13 mo old off of breast milk. I’ve been exclusively pumping since she was born and have always been a just-enough er. She absolutely hates all types of formula (we tried supplementing and she would straight up reject anything that’s not breastmilk). So it’s been stressful trying to make sure she gets enough nutrients. Now my supply is dipping drastically and I’m reaching my limit on how much I can go on pumping. My question is this. Im TERRIFIED of mixing cows milk and breastmilk together to see if she might take it. If she rejects the bottle containing breastmilk, I’ll be devastated since I may not have enough to satisfy her needs. We tried cold turkey giving her cows milk and she literally gagged. We tried blending fruits in it, diluting it in water…. Nothing! This might sound like an impossible issue to tackle but if you have any suggestions or comments I’d be so appreciative.
Amanda Glenn, CLC says
Hi Nadeen! Ah, that’s so stressful, I’m sorry! Okay – what if you mixed one oz of breastmilk and like 1/4 of an oz of cows milk in a bottle and see what happens? That way it’s not a whole bottle and if it works, YAY! if it doesn’t, it’s not a full bottle of milk? Just an idea – so sorry you’re dealing with this!
Loren says
Hi! If I mix breastmilk with whole milk in the am and send my kid to daycare is it still good by the afternoon?
How long will it last once it’s mixed?
Thank you
Amanda Glenn, CLC says
Yes it should be fine in the fridge for 24 hours. 🙂
Christine says
My girl is 13 mo and is refusing the cows milk. Somehow daycare gets her to drink 4 oz during the way but at home she’s not having it. I’ve tried sippy and bottles. (She’s been drinking water out of sippy cups for awhile so very comfortable with it).
What should I try next? Water down the milk? My supply is almost dried up but I could try to pump a little breastmilk to combine w cows milk but I’d hate to waste the breastmilk if she refuses it.
Should I try combining formula with the cows milk instead? Open to suggestions clearly. 🙂
Amanda Glenn, CLC says
Hi Christine! I would try both of those things – breastmilk and formula combined with cow’s milk, then increase the amount of cow’s milk. Good luck!!!
Leah says
With the transition from breast milk to formula, what’s your experience in the difference in poops? My 9 month old just made this transition and is also eating solids now. Obviously the consistency changes but just curious how much thicker is normal!
Amanda Glenn says
It changes A LOT when you add solids! Not sure about formula (we transitioned to cow’s milk) but the solids made the poop a lot darker and a bit thicker! Obviously ask your ped if you’re concerned though!
RBlack says
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E.K. says
Thank you for posting this. I had the same initial reaction. There is Hemp type 1 and Hemp type 2. Type 2 is the smokeable plant. Type 1 makes milk, paper, clothing, rope, etc and has many uses. Unfortunately, both were made illegal early in the 20th Century even though Hemp type one is a useful crop.
Stephanie B says
Your timing is perfect! I am days away from closing the exclusive pumping chapter of my life (hopefully)! My daughter just had her first birthday. She only has a few more bags of frozen breastmilk left. Since she turned one, we have been doing some fresh breastmilk (pumping less and less), some frozen breastmilk, and some cow’s milk (we are doing organic whole milk with vitamin D). To transition her to cow’s milk, we did the “cold turkey” method. I just gave it to her one day and she made a face, but perhaps because it was cold. The next time, I warmed it in the bottle warmer and since then, she has seemed to take it just as well as breastmilk. We have been using cow’s milk at night and for travel because it is easier to deal with than frozen milk. Now the sippy cup…that is another story. She pushes it away! I have tried many different kinds, too. She will take a few sips of water just from a normal cup. Maybe my daughter just likes to do things her own way… Also, just wanted to say THANK YOU for all of your tips and support throughout the last year! It helped so much to know that I was not alone and it helped to be able to share my thoughts, too! I really appreciate it.
The Extreme Pumper says
Thank you so much Stephanie!! I really appreciate you reading and commenting during your EPing journey – best of luck to you and your baby in the future. And congrats on making it one year!!
Good luck with the sippy cup!
Andrea says
I have been trying to get my son to start using a sippy cup. I also have had a hard time finding one that works for him. What kind did you find that finally worked for your son? ( For some reason I can’t follow the link in your post..)
The Extreme Pumper says
Hi Andrea! The Thinkbaby is the one that worked for my son! It has a soft spout like a bottle (it essentially is a bottle, except the spout is a different shape and it has handles. Good luck!!! It is so frustrating! 🙂
https://www.amazon.com/Thinkbaby-Spill-Sippy-Orange-Natural/dp/B003LPUPVU/ref=sr_1_1?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1412819533&sr=1-1&keywords=thinkbaby+sippy+cup